Dating Violence

Teenagers can choose better relationships when they learn to identify the early warning signs of an abusive relationship, understand that they have choices, and believe they are valuable people who deserve to be treated with respect.

Early warning signs that your date may eventually become abusive:

• Extreme jealousy

• Controlling behavior

• Quick involvement

• Unpredictable mood swings

• Alcohol and drug use

• Explosive anger

• Isolates you from friends and family

• Uses force during an argument

• Shows hypersensitivity

• Believes in rigid sex roles

• Blames others for his problems or feelings

• Cruel to animals or children

• Verbally abusive

• Abused former partners

• Threatens violence

Common clues that indicate a teenager may be experiencing dating violence:

• Physical signs of injury

• Truancy, dropping out of school

• Failing grades

• Indecision

• Changes in mood or personality

• Use of drugs/alcohol

• Pregnancy

• Emotional outburst

• Isolation

Credit given to: Delaware Coalition Against Doestic Violence newsletter, Winter 1999